Read voice presence from the bot's own LiveKit room

The panel still claimed it could not see anyone in voice while the bot
and the user were sitting in the same channel: Stoat's gateway does not
send voice states to bots, so the SDK's participant list stays empty no
matter what.

While the bot is connected its LiveKit room knows exactly who is there,
so that is now consulted alongside the SDK — presence is reported as
known, the panel names the channel the user is in, and the listener rule
has real data to work with instead of falling back to trust.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 5 <noreply@anthropic.com>

src/core/player.ts

@@ -262,6 +262,16 @@ export class GuildPlayer extends EventEmitter<GuildPlayerEvents> {
    * participant name, so nobody is ever dropped and the channel never looks
    * empty — the bot would sit in it forever.
    */
+  /** Whether this user is in the channel the bot is sitting in, per LiveKit. */
+  hasParticipant(userId: string): boolean {
+    const participants = this.connection?.room?.remoteParticipants;
+    if (!participants) return false;
+    for (const participant of participants.values()) {
+      if (participant.identity === userId) return true;
+    }
+    return false;
+  }
+
   private listenersInChannel(): number {
     return this.connection?.room?.remoteParticipants?.size ?? 0;
   }